Why in India girls have so much of attitude?
Not all of them have attitude but situations make you feel so.
I'm going to answer this question according to the experience I had.
About me: I'm a regular girl in my late teens and curvy (not fat) and interested in sports.
I'm not going to be a feminist or a feminazi here, nor am I here to put down any of the gender. So please read it with a neutral mind.
Back to the school days…..
Class 12th, badminton court (2 years ago)
I love playing badminton and used to give a tough competition to everybody.
We were playing a doubles match and my team mate was a boy (let's call him T)
So I've standard size breasts. Suddenly out of no where another boy (let's name him K) standing in the same hall said “Hey T, nice T-shirt”. And then they all looked at me. It was clear that the remark was made for me.
Just imagine the embarrassment I felt when he made a comment in front of a teacher, 4-5 girls, 7-8 boys. If I would have said anything then they would have clearly shrugged off this topic saying that they were praising T’s T-shirt. (Really? Praising. School uniform? Everyone else was wearing the same T-shirt).
K is the same boy who rants about respecting girls on facebook. He has an elder sister and he loves his sister and mother and respect them (or shows it on facebook and instagram). He is the same boy who says how each one of us should respect a person.
Now just imagine me ever meeting him in future. I'll always remember his words. I would never want to talk to him, I would not be able to. Then he'll be saying that what a arrogant bitch I'm who is so full of attitude.
Hetal Dhanak, An Indian.
Originally answered : why do girls in India have attitude problem ?
I'm Indian girl
I don't know whether I'm metro girl or normal typical Indian girl but I'll present my views here.
1.I used to play with boys when I was a kid. At that time, both boys and girls were equal for me. (Metro girl)
2.In primary school, we had boys and girls both in our class and we studied together. We used to talk (metro girl)
3.In high school, we had only girls in our class so we never talked to boys. And yes WE WARE NOT ALLOWED TO TALK. Be it any reason( typical Indian girl)
4.In 11-12 science. Again we had boys with us but again we were restricted. So we used to talk on study related topics only. (Somewhere between metro and typical Indian girl)
5.Now, I'm in college. During initial days, there were problems interacting with boys because I never had talked before. ( attitude problem) and I was given so many advices boys are like this, they'll do this etc etc(I know there's nothing like that) but now I can talk with anyone. There's no problem(metro girl)
So, you see the “the typical Indian girl” is having attitude problem(difficulty in interaction) because she has been given “typical”(disbelief and doubts) environment.
Today also, if I'm standing with a boy, so many eyes will be staring me and not that boy. Such behaviour makes a normal Indian girl “a typical Indian girl”. (In some areas in India)
I hope now you understood why we have attitude problem.
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4.在11 - 12年纪。我们又跟男孩在一起上课，但受到了很多限制。所以我们过去只讨论与学习相关的话题。(介于城市和典型凤凰彩票女孩之间)
If you meet an Indian girl born in the states or western country then she will not have an attitude and would be easier to deal with. So it is a culture thing.
Here is why:
1.Most of them do not have a lot of experience dating. Sure they must have been with a guy or maybe too. But, they haven’t really dated in the sense like western world does.
2.They get pestered a lot by guys. Indian guys can be a bit possessive. I am Indian i know. Look at the movies in India. The hero is a loser who doesn’t stop chasing girls around.
3.They know that no matter how they behave guys will keep tolerating there behavior. The guys in America and other countries have a lot of options and are not going to tolerate stupid behavior(they do to some extent). But, if the girl wants to keep a guy she has to have something more than looks. She needs a personality.
How to fix the problem? I don’t know. But, you can be with an Indian girl who is a joy to be with not just a joy to look at. Also, i feel that once you get to know a person then they will open up and remove the fake attitude facade and be friendly to you
Ritika Ojha, lived in India
It took me a while to monitor myself regarding this question and here I am to satisfy your query.
Yes I have been at times accused of this- guilty as charged. For some I am awesome, while a few pointed what an as***** I was, straight on my face.
These views have been presented to me by strangers with whom I have interacted over the past few weeks. In former case, the company was enjoyable and we had a blast. We parted ways clearly commenting to each other how awesome the other person was, irrespective of the gender.
Now comes the latter case, where either of the party didn't find something common to connect over. As such soon I lost interest and it became quite obvious through my body language. One date mentioned I was too rigid with my pov , because I didn't agree to his idea of HIS date. Another person thought I was shallow, and so forth. To be honest I have no shame in agreeing what they stated , as they were mostly true and the clear root cause was my own lack of further interest in their company.
I have rarely had any such attitude issues with women , but such comments are more common from men, and I barely ever manage to lend an ear to it. At times when I was pointed out about this by the right person, I did realise my mistake and accepted it. The only reason was because he/she meant it in a genuine way.
So in short, I mostly reflect back, your own attitude towards me. If you give me an attitude , be prepared to have a taste of your own medicine. For rest of the time, life js good.
Disclaimer: this is the view of AN INDIAN LADY. Use of common sense is strongly advised ;)
Pramod Kumar, studied at S.P College, Tilak Road, Pune-30.
An Indian girl wants her family , relatives and society to believe that she doesn't have any boyfriend, she won't break their trust, she won't let her parents down, she has a fear inside to be called by different insulting names. In short, she prefers butt kissing of elders over love with her future possible life partner.
Indian girls are so conservative that they don't even realise that it's just a matter of generation gap. Elders don't give a shit about her life, her desire, her colourful days. They just know to teach her to respect elders and kill her passion. An Indian girl has no idea how much she hurts her lover or boyfriend because of this awful and worthless societal customs. She believes hurting her bf is fine, cause he is a man so a man doesn't feel pain. She is afraid in taking a bold step and goes across boundaries. Many Indian girls are getting physically assaulted by their own parents. They are not physically strong to defend and protect themselves. Indian parents usually are famous for dominance over their children especially over daughters. That'swhy they have no other way but to show attitude to everyone even to strangers. The result is disastrous, they don't believe on anyone. They become a heartless creature with just flesh and blood looks like a “Real Girl”. Indian girls are not real girls. They are manufactured by societal fears as they grow up and become artifical inside and outside.
Abhishek Kumar, Web and Mobile Application Developer
Girls have a simple formula ( especially for boys ). She will pay heed to you only if you are of some use for her. Now you will think, I am definitely of some use to some girl :) . Well, it works like this. She already has many (guys/boys) friends for entertaining her, so she don’t need you for entertainment, she already has several boyfriends ( and all are unaware of each other :) ), so, again she don’t need you for dating. she already has a brother and also some boys who pretend to be brother, so again she don’t need one more brother.
In India, it doesn’t matter if a girl is beautiful or not. It’s not difficult for her to find guys to play some role in her life. But for boys, its just the opposite. If you are handsome, girls will definitely get attracted towards you but in some way or the other you will not fit her criteria and then you will be again no use for her.
Amar Bhatia, Php developer at HAV Solutions (2009-present)
Buddy, I’ll tell you one thing for sure, Indian Girls are bullshit due to shitty bollywood movies, they think i will make this guy my dog and off course they can because all are the same but if you have enough money to blow, they themselves will come to you, off course not directly. let me explain.
Dialogue of every women in the fucking world: I don’t want money, I want your Respect.
Now, the real game starts if you don’t fulfil her demands you don’t respect her.
so long story short you have money, then you can have any girl you desire even if she has a hell lot of attitude she will fuck with you.
And any girl/women who thinks i don’t respect women a kind note for them, I Respect prostitutes instead of virgins because they are worst then prostitute.
We don't have attitude. Its just that we don't like to talk with our opposite gender counterparts who are too much interested in us, and can't stop interfering in our lives. Just back off, don't talk to us or talk only when there is any work. Otherwise may be that's just me, not every indian girl, but i don't like to talk even to my own father. And it's not because of attitude, it's because of hate that i have for mens. Look at the history, look at our society, look at our surroundings, where you males haven’t interfere in our (girls) business. And if you want to blame anyone for you poor condition, then blame poor sex ratio of our nation, and for this sex ratio blame our older generations who don't like girls even now. In childhood i used to have several males friend but with time they got adult and start proving that “men will be men”
Abin Abraham, studies Bachelor of Science in Physics & Electrical and Electronics Engineering at Indian Institute of Coz girls in India are given too much Importance and priority in India so they know they can do anything and no one is gonna stop them , coz simply they are girls, girls also get so much proposals and compliments from men which further boosts their ego . All Indian women are same greedy stupid and egoistic and want men to come and propose her even have sex with them , if a girl doesn't like the way the man had sex or gave her enjoyment , she will file a false rape case against that man and destroy the man's life . All Indian Girls are bitches no matter how much you love them, care them they are simply gonna ignore it and look for men mostly richer than the previous to propose and have sex with them just like a slut.
Nakul Singh, studied at Sri Venkateswara College, Delhi University
They don't not all but it seems the following reasons are
1 sex ratio is low in India , girls are looked down upon by society and parents. She has to kill her passion and sexuality that's why they are rude.
2 societal construction if girl is open sexually or not virgin she is labelled slut or impure
3 India is home for lot of sex crimes like rape, trafficking etc
5 lot of guys in India don't know how to woo girl they learn from Bollywood movies and society. In USA there are dating coaches and PUA which is not present in India
6 Girl will show attitude when you give them unwanted attention or if you try to attract woman out of your league.
Indian girls will pay heed only to a hot and sexy guy. If not, then they will show attitude.
Vasudeva Reddy, An Observer
( I guess the question was asked by a guy)
What do you mean by attitude?
And, from when attitude has become a wrong thing to have?
Dude, don't you have any attitude? If not, go get some. It's your representation. Attitude is what you are. If you have a certain definition of attitude and someone else is not fitting in that framework, it's not their problem, it is yours.
Statistically speaking, if you think every girl out there is having attitude, the problem must be with you, not with them.
So buddy, what attitude problems do you have?
Geetika Mishra, worked at R Systems International, Noida (2009-2012)
This question made me Laugh. you are asking an Indian girl about this, what shall I do, shall I support, or defend. Funny.
Well, your observation is totally based on small sample size, and mostly as you mentioned is related to the feedback you got online.
Here I will go with the comment made by Ms. Anonymous, it is a cultural difference. If you happen to meet Indian girls face to face, they are as normal as Indian guys.
We Indians have some resistance towards strangers, and that grows more when someone tries to contact you online without any specific purpose. I might not be the best person to explain the reason behind this, but this is how we are.
Ashu Tailor, Preparing for Ras Officer
In india it doesn't matter that girl is successful or not,,,, beautiful or not but they all have onething common that is attiude but they can't understand too much ego killl your self...i think ravana was more successful powerful than any indian girl we can call him a legend he has a great knowledge of veda upnishad and also he is herculean but ghamand to uska bhi toota to yeh ladkiya kya hai jo bina qualities kai ego dikhati hai
Because Pro s tuition business is born in India and all Indian women are of that pros genome.. That's why they have attitude
Fahad Anwar, Office Assistant (2015-present)
One has one’s own attitude,attitude has nothing to do with gender or culture or in what space of ground one is living in.
One can change attitude but can’t kill it,only statue is there available without it.
There is nothing wrong in it,one can be humble & lovely isn’t this an attitude?.
Such +ve attitude,such pure understanding makes one’s life joyfull. Keep it,polish it & shine.
girls in India are not mature as in developed nations . They dress up like developed nations but their thoughts are rotten. They feel every men a foolish. They misuses laws. They always think they are above laws & flying in sky. It will take centuries to mature them.